Link to the article: http://blogs.hbr.org/cs/2011/12/facebook_is_making_us_miserabl.html
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I kinda disagree with this post, I would say people who doesn't have self control would become miserable, which unfortunately, span a large portion of the society.
1. Comparison is not a bad thing, people do it all the time, even without facebook. In high school students compare their grade. Workers compare their salary. Relatives compare their marry-age. It is the people themselves are at fault to wanting to compare. Comparison actually can be good as it drives success, it drives students to study harder for better grade, et cetera.
2. Fragmentation of our time? Seriously? Facebook is just an excuse or tool for those who want to procrastinate, be it during working hour or studying period. Blame these to those who lack self-control.
3. Closeness of friends? Lol, you can just ask your friends out for lunch or dinner. I would say facebook makes it more convenient to connect with friends - msn, skype and other IM softwares are doing the same thing. I simply couldn't relate the closeness of a friend with physical interaction, closeness is between hearts not between bodies. Unless you mean closeness in term of that 'sort' of activities.
Finally, either that the writer is anti-facebook because he is paid to do so, or he felt miserable due to his unfortunate traits, or he is just trying to be 'facemous'. Besides, I am not pro-facebook here, I do agree with the part that we should just quit facebook, and join google+ instead.
TiTan
2 weeks ago
